Dating Advice for Women
 

 

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It’s time to check your dating pulse.
 

Ladies, we have put together a tool to actually measure your dating acumen. Below are a number of scenarios; read each one and then make a selection as to how you would respond.
 

When you’re finished, I’ll talk to you about your responses, and explain why some are better or worse than others, and what you can do to improve your chances of dating success!!
 

So, onward and upward, my friends!
 
 

1)

You are at a local, rather upscale bar that is fairly crowded as it is a Thursday evening. You are standing with your girlfriend in a throng that is three-deep from the bar. On the other side of the bar is a cute, “your type” kind of guy. You make eye contact and smile at one another. Your heart goes a-flutter and you can feel yourself turning red. But then he breaks eye-contact and goes back to talking to his make friend.

 
    A. Go back to talking to your girlfriend and forget about him.
    B. Talk to your girlfriend and set your sights on someone else.
    C. Start making your way to the other side of the bar to say “Hi.”
    D. Buy him a drink, and make sure the waitress tells him from whence it came.
         
 

2)

There’s this man you like – a lot – and you’ve been out with him a few times. It seems to you that you get along well, but you cannot tell if he likes you as much as you hope he does. What can you do?

 
    A. Tell him: “I really like you. Do you like me too?”"
    B. Tell him you are really physically attracted to him, and then touch his shoulder.
    C. Say: “You are sending some serious electricity my way,” and then laugh
    D. Ask him to go to meet your parents (kids, brothers, sisters) and see how he responds

3)

You’re in a very long line at Starbuck’s, but fortunately, there is this really awesome guy in line in front of you and you strike up a conversation. You joke and flirt, and you are sure he likes you. Soon you will be at the counter; you want to see him again. What do you do?

 
  A. Say “Coffee here next Friday at 9.”
  B. Ask him to join you right then and there.
  C. Give him your phone number
  D. With a twinkle in your eye, hand him a pen and simply say “Write down your number
       

4)

It is your second “date” with this hot guy you really like, and you are going for a stroll in the park. He does not take your hand, which you would really like him to do. What do you do about it?

 
  A. You do nothing except continue being your funny, vivacious, charming self.
  B. You “trip” and grab is arm to “steady” yourself, except you don’t let go.
  C. A.You ask him to take your hand.
  D. You laugh about the lions, tigers, and bears in the park and tell him you need his protection. Them you grab his hand
       

5)

You are taking a wine-tasting class at the local community center, and there is this incredibly handsome, funny, sexy guy in the class. You’ve joked around some in the class, and even toasted one another over a glass or two of wine. You are pretty sure he likes you by the way he responds when you walk in the room. It is the last class. He has not asked you out. It’s now or never: what do you do?

 
  A. Tell him you’ve really enjoyed his company in this class and would like to get to know her better over dinner.
  B. Give him your phone number and say, call me sometime.
  C. Ask him if he would join you for some continued education at a local wine bar. Give him a date and time.
  D. Tell him that you like him – a lot – and ask him if he is attracted to you, too.
       

6)

Now it’s time for the ole’ elevator trick. You are alone in an elevator in a high rise with a handsome man and you simply can’t let this incredible chance pass you by. What do you do?

 
  A. Ask him for directions to the basement.
  B. Tell him you’ve seen him around and admired him from afar. Then ask if he’s attached.
  C. Ask him if he’d like to join you for bagels and crème cheese.
  D. Say, “Well, I know women must fall all over you all the time, but I thought I’d strike up a chat to see if you’re nice under all that hunkiness.”
       

7)

Ah – it’s the first kiss time. At least, that’s what you want and you think he does too. So what should you do to sort of nudge things along?
  A. Nothing, nada, zippo, zilch. Just be yourself and see what happens. How he handles it will speak volumes.
  B. Before you get out of the car with him, look at him, don’t say anything, bat your eyelashes, and lift your chin.
  C. You kiss him.
  D. Tell him you want to be kissed.
       

8)

You’ve stopped in to the corner water hole on your way home from work, and have started talking to a really cool guy whom you’d like to go out with. The conversation is going well. He asks you what you do. You say:

 
  A. I’m a project manager for XXX company responsible for the implementation of a new computer system
  B. I clean the tigers’ cage at the zoo!
  C. It’s top secret.
  D. Work as a cashier
       

9)

Alright. We’re, or I should say, you’re moving along. You’ve had a coffee and dinner date with this terrific guy. In fact, after the dinner date, you invite him in for the nightcap and things get a bit, shall we say, carried away. Once things are, ahem, over, he pretty much rushes out the door. He does not say anything about calling or seeing you again. Now the question becomes – what do you do next?

 
  A. Nothing, do nothing. If he calls, act as if it never happened, keep up the same friendly tone, maybe even say you’re busy if he asks you out.
  B. Call him that night and tell him you think he is special and you want to see him again – soon.
  C. Send him an e-card the next day that is gushy and romantic.
  D. Send him an e-card the next day that is funny and light.
       

10)

Here’s one you’re not going to like. You’re sitting in a coffee shop waiting for this guy you met in the elevator. Your date was for 10 am and it’s now 10:45. You feel stupid and humiliated, and think everyone in the whole place knows you’ve been stood up (not true). What do you do now?

 
  A. Slink out the door, never go back to that coffee shop again, and forget about the jerk.
  B. Finish your coffee, walk tall and proud out the door, and call him on your cell. Being friendly and cheerful you confidently say that one of you obviously got your schedule screwed up and that he is to meet you there tomorrow at the same time.
  C. While still sitting in the coffee shop, call him and ask him where the heck he is?
  D. Walk proudly out the door and forget about the whole thing.
       

Conclusion Well ladies, there you have it.
My humble two-cents worth on the art of various and sundry dating scenarios.Hope these help.

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